Hope,,, try to find me on FB... I gave clues to Superstar thread... so we can have lawyer chat off line..
Anyhow, glad you've seen a L... I felt good when I did too... My L said getting a PI won't do much.. I'm not sure what us claiming adultery will get us anyhow... I am going to have pictures off OW facebook page copied of her and of both of them proving out of town trips and her character...
you are doing wonderful and have come a long way.... all the things you've listed - I'm sure you are feeling great about yourself too... we both have come so far so lets remember where we started when we thought we couldn't breathe and I couldn't see how I could laugh again or enjoy anything... and I'm there.. I really find it easy to talk with H now b/c I'm repulsed at his behavior and I really feel I deserve better than this .... so that helps me move on and start excepting the D and if things change with H I'll see where I'm at....
good goal setting ... one week of 100% DBing... no emotion or negative thinking with H... I'll do the same
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
