You are right as it is about the boundaries I set. I am so patterned to think and act in a way where I don't cause any waves, that my boundaries get run over by XW. That is a critical part of my growth and development for sure.
Al-Anon is a very good idea that I've thought of, but only fleetingly in the past. Other support groups would help me too, but I've been so hesitant to start up w/anything b/c of the uncertainity of where I'll live if/when the house finally sells.
I guess like all things, it is being used as an excuse by me to delay going. Your words have me thinking...which is supposed to be a good thing, right?
