Glad you got some sleep. I need some good sleep too, but I am lacking sleep from my 10 month old son. Still doe not sleep through the night..
Right now your H is not going to be honest with you and he will continue to lie. You really don't want him to talk to you about the OW anyway, trust me.
Originally Posted By: Belle
I'm tired of being available when his infidel schedule allows it. (Does that sentence even make sense?) :-)
It makes sense to me. Don't be available!! Detaching is key right now Belle. Next time he calls, wait a day to call or wait until he calls you back. Don't sit around and wait and wonder what he is up to. YOU be the mysterious one. Make him wonder about you by not taking all of his calls, by being busy and you cutting conversations short.
Originally Posted By: belle
heart to heart where he said he doesn't need to go to church to know how to respect people and treat them well. I just smirked at him - and then he prompted me by saying "I'm not nice to you? I don't treat you well?" I told him that he certainly didn't respect me and he agreed and apologized for that.
Don't get baited into having heart to hearts right now. No he is not nice to you or is treating you well and he knows it, he just wants to feel less guilty about it. You did a good job with your answer but next time I would avoid answering questions like that.
I re-read the LRT of DB last night and it is beginning to sink in.
I am gald I can be here to listen. It don't get a lot of responses on my threads, so I appreciate "talking" with you too.
