I'm calmed down now...L never called me. Now, I don't want to talk to him...cuz, I don't want to pay.

I read on Va divorce proceedings that the next step, typically after an Answer has been given to a 'complaint' is papers for 'seperation and property settlement agreement'.

when H reads through all the items to 'settle' he's gonna have to grow UP!@!

We have a fairly simple life right now. A D is going to COMPLICATE everything!

Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home