Carlos I can also see myself was behaving the same way the M from the cafe. I never really listened to her. This is something that I am working on. I know you are not happy with MIL saving her problems again with $$$. At the end, these are her problems and you can only watch from the sideline. Like you said, she will has her reality check sooner or later. Honestly, do you still see her as your W? Or she is just mother of your child. All of us, we will keep live our life to the fullest and hopefully one day our WAS will decide to come along to create a new R because the old one is not worth keeping/saving. We can not predict the future. You will not know when you will fall in love again. It could be your W or another lucky woman. I won't put a time line in anything. That's just my personal opinion. I rather just take it one day at a time. When you feel like you are ready to 'Move on', then you are ready. It could be tomorrow, next week or years....Only you WILL know. Don't sweat on it..
Take care Shifu
NW626
Me:33 STBXW:38 S:3 It's not whether you win or lose, it's how you fight the fight....!!
