Not much has changed. The closer we get the more attached I feel to her, but she doesn't feel the same. I thought it would be a good idea that we go away with some friend over the weekend. However, her F decided that we should all go on a cruise. Really her F wanted us to baby sit her underage kids. I declined the offer and I thought my W did as well.
I found out my W was still going to go on the cruise. She created a huge amount of debt b/c of her MLC. She opened up her own bank and credit card accounts. I confronted her about going on the cruise while she owes so much money. I told her how stupid it was to do something she couldn't afford. I also told her that I wasn't going to bail her out again. I remind her about our arrangement we had from the beginning. If we lose our gas or electricity that's her problem.
