A in Ohio,
Sounds like even if the entire situation is not what you want, you as a person are making progress.
I applaud you for the progress you have made, and imagine that you will make more.

I wish you well on your journey.

Me: 41
W: 41
Married: 17 years
Together: 19 years
16-Sept-2008: "W: I want to move out."
16-Jan-2009: Separated, wife moved out.
31-Mar-2010: W, and kids move back home!
D 14
S 12
D 11
S 7