I'm sure that buefos everywhere would take offense to that remark!
Actually, I'm very fond of amphibians and reptiles.
Pam, I'm not doing well. I'm not doing badly. I think I'm doing.... "weirdly". Not sure how to explain this, but I just can't get a handle on my feelings lately.
Yes, my H did come home last night and was seeming to need some babying from me. I couldn't do it. Nor could I respond to his touch or his advances.
I felt like I'd been dropped into this relationship from mothership and was clueless about my own feelings. I was the alien this time.
H tried to sexually persuade me, but the only urge it invoked inside, was laughter. I fought it down for as long as I could, but then I really lost it. (No face icon to fit that one).
Needless to say, this did not bode well with my H. I apologized and said that I must have been overly tired. He got up and went to the couch in the living room for a while.