This feels like a "dark" contest. I am dark, she is dark...who will blink first?
She makes no attempt to talk to me, call me, or email me. I have said probably 10 words to her in 6 weeks (even with a kid in the mix), and they have all been $$ related. Not much DB'ing other than LRT to say the least.
It makes detachment a lot easier, but now I find myself forgetting that I even have a STBXW. It's weird.
As for D, I have no idea what is going on. I have not heard from my L in a LONG time, which (probably) means he has not heard from her L in a long time. As I mentioned in TxMoms thread, my L bill for the month of Nov was a whopping 0.7 hours of billable time. Yes, zero point seven.
I need to be very careful here and not pretend (to myself) that my W is having a change of heart and is stalling the D on purpose. I have zero indications that this is the case from either her words or actions.
Very strange...I always assumed that marriages ended like my parents did or those I saw on TV...years of fighting and reconciling followed by an acrimonious D process.
Mine is more like a light switch...I woke up one morning and it was just...over.
It feels like my W died more than it does a D.
H: 38 W: 36 S: 8 S: 5 M: 16 Bomb: 8/25/08 OM: 9/21/08 EA (Possible PA) with co-worker since 5/08 (at least...) Sep: 9/21/08 D Filed 9/23/08 My Situation
