this divorce crud and Lawyers scare me!

It feels like the Lawyers are in the way.

H and get along pretty well when we are left alone, just us and the kids...

I am so done pretending nothing is wrong.

H pretends nothing is going on.

Inlaws pretend nothing exists...their son, our marriage, the horrific things he has done to me and his kids. I can't keep ignoring real life.

Everyone pretends that NOTHING is going on!!!

How FAKE can everyone be??

Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home