It sounds like you are doing great in dealing with your alien! You talked about seeing progress in me but I can really see a change in you here lately and how you are handling your H's need for space. So way to go!!!!!!
Hope you got some rest last night.
The phone thing would have in the past set me off I know. I hope I am past the point that something like that would push me into a meltdown now. But I also hope not to put myself into too many situations just yet that would throw me back to that person. I like yours and mines new persons better than the old ones! Lets make a pact to keep the new ones around for the long haul!!!
Here is a hug and keep up the good work and the sense of humor! I think laughter is good medicine and very important to keep in our lives right now.
{{{{{Jeannine}}}}}}
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
I hope I am past the point that something like that would push me into a meltdown now. But I also hope not to put myself into too many situations just yet that would throw me back to that person. I like yours and mines new persons better than the old ones! 
Lets make a pact to keep the new ones around for the long haul!!! 