I feel though this coldness, dis-interet if you will and very forgetful. Like he cant be bothered.
I am going to have to sit this out now and see if he calls to be more positive to him. I feel though if I dont ask the questions, then he tells me nothing. I dont know if that is him really distancing himself or if he puts effort into not telling me stuff without being asked!
I think of myself smarter than the OW. To me H has said "that she cant hold a candle to you" " she is flat chested solo mother who has nothing and smokes " " if he was to ahve sex then he would be just using her " " He said he could never trust again " ' He said he would never love again"
He has also said in the heat of things
" she is wonderful to talk to " " we have spouses who have had A in common but that is all" " she has introduced me to new friends" " laid back Maoris, lower social ecomonically than me " " they listen when i speak "
I wish there was somewhere I could look up and follow his thought patterns ! I have never ever experianced such dis-interest from anyone before. My customers ask more than he. he is like functional.
