Around here, if a person ends up in jail, they can arrange it where a person serves jail time at night and works their regular job during the day. They just spend the night at the jail for however long the sentence is.
I would not let him off the hook so easily. I know he is suffering internally and so are all of you but he has to learn that you will not always be there to bail him out.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19