I thought my L understood that I don't want a D. That all I wanted to do was 'answer' my H's 'complaint'. I did not counter file, I did not want to.
I thought my L said that many times once an answer is given, the papers just sit...and sit...and ....
So what the HE!!L did my L send a memo to H's L with the following memo?
"Hi so and so, the last time we spoke you indicated you would be drafting a settlement agreement. Please forward the same to me at your earliest convenience'.
I feel my L is provoking H and is L to do something! I did not ask my L to send this memo and now I want to know why he would encourage or provoke this to continue. AND....I don't want him to do anything that I have to pay for without asking me first!!
I called L to clear this up....I'm waiting for him to call back.
UGHHHH
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home