I just had a session with my C and we looked at a number of possible reasons for this "behavior" in my H. One of the issues that we discussed was in reference to his relationship with his mother. Lot's of unpleasant stuff contected to that topic.
I've got to learn how to manage my way through his outbursts without aggravating the situation and still be fair to myself. The C made what I thought to be a good suggestion and that is for me to validate his feelings at those particular moments and then to excuse myself from further involvement until we're both ready to talk about it, if I find myself too upset to discuss it further at that moment.
