Hey A I have been watching all this from afar. Good advice as usual from Gucci and PDT.....
I guess I am on the "why tell them?" what does that serve? Puppy, I get the marketig comment for sure, but in this instance you just cant justify from her POV so she will come off looking bad eventually on her own, yes?
You lost me, CVA. What it "serves" is that you're being truthful with them, you're hoping they can apply some influence to the situation. In general, I'm in favor of anything that will hasten the ending of an affair, since the longer they go on, the more damage they can do -- emotionally, medically, financially, psychologically.
