My $0.02...

Don't tell her about the exchange. Reevaluate your reason for considering telling her. You want a reaction out of her...she won't give you the one you want. We all already know that to be true, right? Nothing you say at this point will make any difference to her.

And, BTW, something very similar to that was told to me recently on my thread by some guy who claims to be married to a crazy woman1


Me 39 H 36
S 7 S 4
T 15 M 12
H out 8/1/08
OW confirmed 8/6/08
D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!