she's out and has announced OM to all

[karen43]

That W of mine is so naive if she thinks that D doesn't hurt the kids. I'm debating internally on whether or not I tell her about this exchange.

I don't know that they are that naive. Maybe just wishful thinking so they can avoid feeling guilty. My H says stuff like that too, even that the D is good for the kids and me! I can't believe they actually believe stuff like that!!! Karen