Phoenix, agree -- about M was crappy...I know in hindsight that mine was -- we drifted, no intimacy, no connection by both of us. I felt the drift and did not address but neither did H. did H have to cheat -- absolutely not. I asked him why did you not talk to me and he said well I did not see you talking to me about the M either. fog babble at that point but looking for an excuse. Now if I can become that attractive alternative maybe the OW won't be so "special". time will tell
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
