By no means do i mean to downplay your feelings here...nor do i profess to have solutions. It dawned on me just now that your latest post does not contain anything to really get mad at your wife about. The reason i feel this way is that i have little animosity towards your wife...i have no emotional baggage. i suggest that we should all strive to get to this level of detachment in our own sitches. It is extremely difficult to get there, I know.....trust me. It will do you alot of good if you could at least try to get there. Don't sweat the small stuff and enjoy your kids!