Gucci.....your insight....makes me laugh...and think!!! Can you read up on my sitch and gimmie some of your "goods"!?
Ok. I will take a look.....
My wife still laughs at my screen name...
"What made you choose "Gucci Loafer"?????? she asked as she laughed. It cracks her up and then it started to crack us both up. It is now turning into a little "joke and pet name" that we have between us....
That is an insight to what I am trying to convey to AinO... He DID need to stop "controlling"her He HAS stopped controlling her and is just "being". No control or whatever else you want to call it. It is HER word that SHE used. It doesn't matter what we think, what matters is if SHE THINKS he is controlling. She is slowly beginning to think that he is NOT controlling her because he ISN'T. He is making is OWN decisions. He is letting her do whatever her heart pleases. Now she can NOT say he is controlling. (and she hasn't, has she?)