Hope - hey girl, I wanted to tell you how happy I am to hear about all the good stuff the walking chasing OW into street, yoga and weights has done on your body. You said something in T2L's thread this morning to my post that has helped me through this day. It made me remember what we need to remember EVERYDAY with these people they are in a fog. And to help not fall into that fog with him you need to focus on you and I really have found praying helps, because then you start focusing on things your not controlling. You see things happening that your not doing and you don't know when the next one will happen. It's a great distraction. And I saw you post something that looked like it came from the Rejoice Marriage site - so I know your reading that, and then you know you could get a divorce and move away and he could still come back, so don't give up if you have love pennies in the bank. It's tough and we never know if we are doing the right thing and sooooo many times we want to say one thing and can't help it even when we know it will withdraw love from the bank.
Hugs hun.
Jen Me 32 H 35 Married 8yrs 3/11/2000 - Together 10 yrs No Children
1st Bomb - 7/1999 2nd Bomb - 8/2004 3rd A - 10/2006 4th A & Bomb - 10/12/08
Done sweeping things under the rug, I need to start doing something...But what?
chasing OW into street, yoga and weights has done on your body. 
