Hi, I've only posted once or twice to you but I've been with you from the start.
What is to be accomplished by exposing the affair to the in-laws? From this end it seems sort of punitive. Will this bring you closer to your goal? It's going to come out eventually, one way or the other. You being the one to spill the beans seems like it just makes you look small. No?
BTW, I think SIL will probably take care of this for you eventually anyway.
As always good luck, keep up the good work.
Me 44 She 46 S13 D9 M18 T23 3 years DB'ing Successfully busted