To be honest it probably wouldn't even phase her. Sorry. Just keep being the best parent that you know how. I promise kids notice. You read my quick story on Jeff's thread. Really 42 years later, I am so glad my dad was who got me/us. I am not saying things were peaches and cream at home growing up but as an adult, I can see what was best all around.
Hugs.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory