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if OM hadn't left my wife, she wouldn't be reconciling with me


True. It's also true that most stories involve an OP, and reconciliations require the OP out of the picture. Ideally it's your spouse dumping OP, but take what you are given.

What worries me more is that it happened so fast. I fear that you didn't have a chance to build up your self-esteem to the point you realize that it isn't you that's lucky, it's her, that you'd even bother to take her back. Keep that in mind....you can survive. She can't hurt you.

P.S. Congrats that things are going well. Enjoy it. Remember to look at what you are doing differently, when things are going well.

Last edited by Phoenixdeux; 12/10/08 05:41 PM.
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