PM you can also find out about Plan A/Plan B on another website marriagebuilders. It is really from Surviving an Affair book.
Your words encouraged me the other day and I am really trying to be consistent, confident, and peaceful. It is a struggle but I know every time I blow up it makes things 100% worse. Thanks

Has your H asked for a D? I think mine might after the new year which he mentioned when all of this started. Guess he thinks he is being a "nice guy" to wait till after the holidays. take care and God bless.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09