I would definately be in pullback mode. I would start demonstrating that the H4H package is not for rent...its BUY ONLY!! So far she rents you when she needs you...then returns you.
You have become her Girlfriend in a way. Thats needs to stop. Your her husband. She needs a jolt of reality of what life with out H4H is like.
You have scored some major points recently. You have been there when she needed you, demonstrated how well the family functions as a unit. You have done all you can to remind her of what she will lose.
I think its time to lay the cards on the table with her.
Emotionally its taking a toll on you. Being there for her as her husband, all the friendly family time only to feel the sting of reality when her cellphone buzz's and then your discarded at the end of the day. Sent to your room so to speak...i.e. your house until she needs you again.
Basically you are filling a lot of her major EN's but get none of your EN's filled in return. Wonderboy..if he is still in the picture...hasn't had to deal with any of the heavy stuff going on in her life.
Its time for a reality dart. Pull back more and more...without it too obvious and see what happens.
