Thanks for the advice this is like a freakin chess game and usually I am lousy at chess. Well I just spoke to her regarding some bills and acted as if nothing happened, she also acted as if nothing happened. I will continue to get my finances inorder and move along with taking over the house.
Her statement before we ended the latest conversation was I can't find a place to live. Her realestate agent will be gone to florida for two weeks so she will have to wait till she gets back. My guess now is that her not having a place to live may have some bearing on her "missing me last night" so I guess until I see some real and consistent change I'll keep moving forward.
We are having a chat about the house tonight, I'll post an update then.
Thanks for the help,
Jeff
ME 44 W 32 M 5 T 6
no kids
June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
