{{{Beth}}} My dear friend....UGH that you are having that kind of day and then a "well meaning outsider" with her 2 cents as well..just remember..people's 2 cents won't buy anything nowadays..so take what you can from it and toss the rest out..in this case..toss it all out \:\)

As far as the rings go..you know..it's funny cause really I'm of the mindset like in the movie Fireproof..the rings MEAN something to me and to my marriage (tho I really need to get my ring fixed because I lost my big stone out of it..so it looks kinda crummy..LOL..like my marriage looks right now I suppose), BUT, by the same token, what you said about NOT wanting that same marriage..and when we DO reconcile..I want different rings and a new ceremony..so..at some point do I take this off as a "symbol" of the death of the old marriage while waiting for the new one..geez..I dunno but something to think about for sure \:\)

To wrap up MY rambling LOL..I think Alex is definitely right, and I remember reading the "ring or no ring" discussion too, it is such a personal, individual decision that you'll know when to, if at all, and not by what anyone else says about it \:\)

Well I can't wait to hear on Saturday if you decide to do something different..woo hoo \:\)

Tawnya

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