Breakaway - I expected that response from you. Not that it's bad but my last attempt was a cheeselss tunnel. For my W to think she could keep EA while reconciling was a slap in the face. W really believed that she could "not cross the line" w/ OM. With her emotional issues, I think he was a good backup for her, which turned out to be right they are back together. All that effort turned out to be a cheeseless tunnel.
Trying something different and getting my self respect back.
Sweetie that wasn't really directed at you...it was "in general" and I think/hope you know me well enough by now to kind of get it. Like you said, you expected it.
That being said it was flippant and impulsive, guilty as charged.
A...I don't think for one single second you should tolerate her affair. I have never said that. People keep implying I mean that when I have repeatedly said I don't.
You deserve to get your self-respect back!!
And I think you have one of the more difficult sitches on the board because I think your wife is most likely emo disturbed. In fact I think there are is a large number of people here who are struggling (myself included) because our spouses are not rational. Not "in the fog" not rational...but fundamentally so.
I want the very very best for A in Ohio. I think you are a great person.
