Wow. Just spoken to mumoftwo35 and since that chat we have called it off. She kinda beat me to the punch as I was writing the text as we hers came through. she should of been more honest in the first place if you ask me, but say she is seperated but ex still wants in. Her parents are super gutted about it all so she doesn't want to upset them, but basically, it's all for her gain. Her ex is still paying for shedloads whilst living at his mums and they haven't started the divorce process yet. If your gonna do it, do it and don't go meeting other people if your not in a position to do so. she says very few people know, it all sounds very odd to me so better off out of it.
Sure she does really want to know, but is more preoccupied with keeping up appearances and not rocking the boat. Well, that's what seperation is and does so deal with it.
I probably sound more bothered than I am there, I'm more annoyed than anything that if your start having (what I guess is) an EA with someone, either tell them the facts from the off or don't do it.
