Jeanine, Great news on your results so far! I cant believe how many people have been through this! It makes me want to pay close attention because it may be a matter of time for me too! I lost a bunch of weight too when this happened to me from the huge amount of stress. Great news Jeanine ! And I agree with everyone- you sound so much stronger. This is a big step too. In some ways, your H and his "antsy" feeling may be some of his MLC and trapped feelings gnawing at him. IMHO, I think you did the right thing letting him go and encouraging him. I used to do that with my H - he just had to get out of the house. It made him feel trapped and brought on lots of bad feelings about OR. Unfortunately, he had to explore before he came back to hopefully work on us again. I think you are doing the right things and suppoting him, making it safe to be with you. In order to combat him possibly moving out, just be you fun upbeat self he will want to be with- the girl he married. Other than that, you cannot control his actions, just be calm and peaceful and his ally when he needs it. Even though he is moody, I think there are some positives here. It may jsut take time- it has taken me 2 years to get back to being liked again! Now that you are at your fighting weight, as my H calls it, what can you do that is different ? Like maybe take on a physical activity. Maybe catch his attention in a really positive light?? When you feel up to it of course...just some random thoughts! You have so many friends here and mega posts it is hard to keep up!!! Congrats Jeanine!
