Breakaway - I expected that response from you. Not that it's bad but my last attempt was a cheeselss tunnel. For my W to think she could keep EA while reconciling was a slap in the face. W really believed that she could "not cross the line" w/ OM. With her emotional issues, I think he was a good backup for her, which turned out to be right they are back together. All that effort turned out to be a cheeseless tunnel.
Trying something different and getting my self respect back.