Tawnya - I have not decided whether there will be big change or little change. I'll decide on Saturday. But I agree with you, it is fun.
LHS - Good to hear from you. I have to get over to your thread to see how you are doing. Just keep moving forward, that's what I tell myself every morning.
Whateverittakes - some good advice I have gotten and that I use whenever I start to worry I may never reconcile with my H - keep your mind focused on the present. It is not the easiest thing to do, but it really brings a lot of comfort to me.