I don't have it together... just trying like all of us. When I read your posts, it gives me strength and inspiration. More days than not it's this board that gets me through. I will try to post my own thread because I would really appreciate more support.
Yup, I'm an attorney too...one of the nice ones, I hope.
I echo what lovehimso says: I so hope that I will look back at this period as being what was necessary for our marriage to get even better.
There are no signs of recon in my sitch. As someone who expects results from my work (and the dbing is work!), I sometimes don't know where I will get the patience necessary to see this thing through. And it scares me that seeing it through may just be about him continuing to say... "the feelings just aren't there" (why do I always hear the band Air Supply in my head when he says that?).
Wishing each of you a productive and peaceful day... can we all try to have at least 5 really good laughs today? Most of mine will be at myself!!