JMO....You put all of the blame on your M troubles on H.
JMO....He will not receive this well.
JMO....This will anger H and drive him farther away. He may ponder a bit what you said but he will have very negative thoughts about you and the M.
It's tough because you can't take it back once it's said.
If you believe this was damage causing...you are right.
You needed to have more control over your emotions and not confront H in such a harsh manner, again JMO.
JMO, do not do this again with your H, unless of course you want to drive him away for good. You may also keep driving this way and push him into the arms and bed of the OW so fast your head will spin. This is something I know you don't want.
Come up with a better approach and plan and begin now....
This path you are on now will not help but rather hurt your sitch....
M, keep in mind these are just my opinions, it's ultimately up to you how you handle your H and M.
Your friend,
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11
