BA... do you HAVE to sell the house? You say you dont want to and you worry about the effect on your M?
Its amazing that things remain the same... although its bad that H drags you out of bed at 6.30 am and makes yuo ride 26 miles 2 days in a row.. at least he is willing to do stuff with you! Gosh I wonder what will break this impasse between you, him and MOW. I forget, does her H know about the A?
You have been through the emotional wringer and it continues.. I dont think any of us know what to suggest, as you cant seem to reach him. It doesnt seem to matter what you do? He is under her spell! Makes me think he is in the grip of an unhealthy Pluto transit (is about obsession and control or being controlled.) He's like a puppet on a string and shes yanking his chain. I might be wrong, but I'd be curious to look at his chart.. did yoiu ever send me his details? Always thinking of you...
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread