I am sorry I missed what happened... You are no quiter, you are brave and amazing and strong. And maybe this rope dropping is what it will take for him to understand what he will lose.
Take care of you, stick to your no contact rule. You do need time to heal but you will. Your D is old enough and she will understand. She is brave girl like her mom. Life will be treating you well, you will see, trust me... Stay in touch, LOVE K