Carlos, it's amazing how familiar all our stories are. And how predictable some things seem to us now, after going through what we we have been through. It's sad that while we are learning -we are really learning- we cant "give" this knowledge to people that are even close to us, friends etc.(let alone strangers in a cafe) to help avoid unneccessary pain and sadness...
Going back and reading your diary is a way of learning. I used to write letters to myself and H that he never got where I was decsribing the same thing over and over again : how lonely I felt in that marriage. What I realise now is, that I wasn't communicating it this in a right way. At least not in the end. I just quit and gave up trying and hoped he would approach me to find out why I was this way. He he withdrew completely and we started just ...coparenting.
I hope your day is going fine, thanks for checking on me, hugs back at ya & xxxx K
