Can my 32 year old W have a midlife crisis?

[Jeff3]

I need help! I am at my friends place and was just watching him play hockey when my wife called. She was quiet and finally said that she has been looking at the walls all night and that she has been missing me.I asked her was that meant. She said I don't know. I said that I didn't know how to respond and I really didn't know what to say. We were supposed to talk tommorow night about me buying the house, so I said get some sleep and we will chat tomorrow. She said I am sorry I told you it wasn't fair to you. I am thinking WTF! I said good night and hung up! I should have let it go to voice mail.

Then I stupidly called her back and told her that it was ok that she told me. Again she said it she shouldn't have because of the path we are going down. I didn't have a response and ended the call. This is the first time that she has given me any indication that she has missed me. I don't want to get sucked in I need a realistic perspective any advice would help.

I am planning to keep it business like in our conversation, but desperately want to tell her I miss her too! I am afraid that I scared her off by calling her back and wish I were home right now.

This is the first real indication that she is questioning and It is screwing with my head I know I need to keep DBing and I guess I need to back off.

Jeff