Smoke break over..it's chilly and snowy out but damn is my bed warm!
Tawnya I will try to get the pics up on FB....pushing the "upload" button on my phone hurts!!
Sunday... Worked all day W called around noon for update as to my time home. She was tired and said she was gonna nap a bit then clean up from her friends being in town and throw a roast in the oven. I told her I would be home around 4pm and wanted to put up the Xmas tree and stuff I bought on Saturday....I forgot this part! WAnd I threw out our old Xmas tree last year...I told her I would buy a new one and decorations and stuff. I bought it all...tree..ornaments...garland..tree topper..about $300 worth of stuff. I told her to leave all our stuff in it's boxes...only the stuff the kids made or very special ones could be put on the new tree. I got home, showered, got the new tree mostly up by dinner. After we eat as a family me and the girls start with the decorating....I ask W for a little advise/help...is it centered...garland ok...stuff like that. She didn't really "do" anything. We watch House for a couple hours together then off to bed.
Monday Working all these Sundays meens extra $$ for me! I shoot an email to W during the day....gonna run some errands after work will be home for us to take kids to C. I have dinner with some friends at their house then off shopping!! We hit Kohls and I get some new pants and shirts and a sweet leather jacket. Run to Target for some "necessities" then home. I bring my booty upstairs...W notices and comments on my taste and the fact that stuff was on sale!! We take the kids to C. C wanted to meet with us and the kids for a few minutes...she says kids are doing well...they don't want to hear about "adult" things...stuff like that. We had about 40 mins to kill until kids were done. I asked W to go to grab some snacks at Subway while we waited. We chatted about "nothing" I was friendly, funny, like if I was on a date. We go back and get kids....head home and all go to bed.
Today Work...what a suprise!!! I get home and decide...grilled cheese and soup for dinner!! My first attempt....no one vomited/died! I was supposed to go to small group...didn't really feel like it...just kinda spent some alone time out and about.
Couple things...popular opinion (my mom) is that W is being friendly to "soften" me up....not gonna happen! When I say soften I mean so she can get what she wants as far as the D goes. I have a meeting with my A on Thursday. We are gonna hash out what I want as far as D and my chances for custody. My W has told me 100 times not to trust her...all the things she told me from her A as well as her actions lead me to not trust her parenting skills either. Does anyone have any insight on this?
Ws family has nowhere to have Xmas this year!! For the last few years it has been here....looks like 1 more year. Any thoughts on this? My moms .02c....tell my W to ask OM to have it at his house....sorry...2 bedroom condo...LOL!! Thumbs hurt Later all
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM
