It means a lot to hear your responses. I don't feel so alone like I have been lately.
I know I can't take it out on him and I haven't said anything negative really since August. We did have one heart to heart where he said he doesn't need to go to church to know how to respect people and treat them well. I just smirked at him - and then he prompted me by saying "I'm not nice to you? I don't treat you well?" I told him that he certainly didn't respect me and he agreed and apologized for that.
He returned my call today but I couldn't answer. So I called him when I got home from work (8pm) and left a message. Of course, he hasn't called back. Probably with OW again. I guess he's not available at night. His message today said that he just got my message today, sorry he didn't call back yesterday.
What a crock, in my mind.
I never thought he could be a liar, but I have caught him in some lies in the last year.
Oh, well...Detach, detach, detach.
I'm tired of being available when his infidel schedule allows it. (Does that sentence even make sense?) :-)
Seriously Tango, I appreciate your advice.......Its nice to have someone listen to me and sympathize....
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