I feel we are at a crossroads and don't really know what to do.

I am exhausted, even though I have had plenty of sleep. I guess it is emotional stress. I have been enjoying the freedom from living with an unhappy and helpless woman for about three months.

But she was a bit of her (good)old self this last weekend. She even looked nice as we did things as a family. Towards the end however she brought up her fear that I would not put her first, over our daughter, because of this misinterpreted event earlier described.

So now I am wondering what the next move is. I am contemplating writing a letter because it is hard to find a card that is appropriate to our present situation.

If we are to work on reconcilliation, I know that her interpretations of events need to change, and that is out of my control.

Any thoughts out there in DB land ?

Last edited by native; 12/10/08 03:42 AM.
Me 47, W 32,D 6,
Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7
Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09