I know what you mean about mixed signals on this website. I know everyone says you have to do the opposite of what you think you are supposed to do, but it seems to me that there is no resolution of issues. it would seem like a false reconcilliation to me and I have been there before.
I read a post last night from southsidemac that gave me a little hope. He left his wife for OW and she kept pursuing him, but she finally had enough and truly detached. He had an awakening and realized what an a$$ he was. It was gut wrenching the things he said. He thought that he lost his chance because she was done with him and was moving on with her life. Anyway, the last post I read, his wife agreed to work on it.
I know that detaching is the best way to go about it, but if it works, then what?
I don't mean to be negative as well, but there are those days when we all get down in the dumps.
You are really doing well though Belle, stay strong and keep posting. get it out here before you think about taking it out on him.
Try to sleep well. I hope you have a better day tomorrow.
