You are so right Upside. I think my h's whole identity is tied up in his work. Not sure if this is common for men or just that my h is a bit overboard in this area.

Oh well, I was just thankful he met up with me and then gave me money too!

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"