It's Complicated!

[plentyhope]

GG,

Sorry to hear you are unwell. I hope you get the much needed rest. When you're rested up, you'll have more energy to handle your H's behavior.

Hugs, PH

[Purr]

Hey gg,

Sorry it's been so stressful...I can certainly connect with the part about having to do everything while solo...not fun. It's a lot of work!!

Good job for posting / venting some of this stuff here. Hope you get some sleep and this will help a bit. This is such a long haul and a very difficult journey.

Hang in there,

Purr

[Maya44]

Hey GG, are you feeling better today hon?

[glamgirl]

I am feeling a little bit better today. Even went to work. H called right before lunch and says how about a date for lunhc.

He came by and picked me up in his new car. I have to admit he was really looking good. Sunglasses on sunroof open, dressed nice. It was like wow.

We went out to lunch and h paid. He also gave me $400 to pay bills and said more next week. I just said thank you h.

We enjoyed a nice lunch together. He seemed to be in fine spirits today.

On my way home from work h called just to check in on me. He said we had a nice lunch. I just said yes h it was nice.

I said I would need help with the kids on wed and thur this week, since s20 has to put in some extra hours at work this week. H just said no problem that he would be there.

I just thanked him for calling and said see you tomorrow. So good day after a lousy one.

[glamgirl]

You are so right Upside. I think my h's whole identity is tied up in his work. Not sure if this is common for men or just that my h is a bit overboard in this area.

Oh well, I was just thankful he met up with me and then gave me money too!

[MidwesternGirl]

HI, GG!

Sounds like you had a very nice lunch date today. I also like your h's attitude today. He seems like he is wanting to do all he can to help out.

All positives.

[plentyhope]

GG,

Congrats on a nice lunch date. Your H seems to be really making some baby steps. As for being identified with work, I think men tend to do this - another difference between men and women. My H takes his work very seriously too. I have learned to respect that.

[happynow]

Hi Glam,

Sounds like a very positive day!! You are doing great!! Just hang in there, it does sound like he is trying to help out, that is a good sign.

((((HUGS))))

[Maya44]

What a fabulous day GG!

[Truelove]

Hi glamgirl,
I read that instead of having an affair some MLCers put all their effort into work. Maybe your H is that kind of person.

Have a good week.