Hi Beth Thanks for the encouragement. I really need that.
Journal... W and S3 just left. I miss that crazy boy running around the house. I will see him soon for sure. The past several days, W and I remain friendly to each other. There were no arguing, drama...etc, only the brief R talk on Sunday afternoon. I can see she feel more comfortable around me now. She even agrees that I can stay with her next time I go down to see S3. Right now she is not my W. She is just the mother of my son. I believe she got this vibe from me too. I even joke with her you can't take all the maxi pads away, need to leave some for my lady friends. I guess overall it was pretty good several days. My next goal is for her to feel good enough around me to talk about her deeper issues. I know this may never happen. Until then, she is just a friend. I will keep busy work on myself, GALing with zero expectation. If there are any positive movements from W side, they are just bonuses.
Keep on driving the bus and hope she will take the ride eventually.
NW626
Me:33 STBXW:38 S:3 It's not whether you win or lose, it's how you fight the fight....!!