I had a minor interaction with the W today; she sent me a text asking for the rest of the money that I owed her. She wanted to know if I would drop it by work. I ignored her request. Eventually she called me at work and inquired if I had gotten her text. I told her that I had and that I would go by and drop off her money on my way home. She told me to call her cell when I got in the parking lot.
So I'm there and she doesn't answer her phone. I called twice. I sent her text; now I'm running out of time to get the kids. So I call inside; one of her co-workers answered. I know that OM has been visiting her there from her mother (she works there too). So I made sure that I mentioned that this is Tom, her husband; is she there? I'd like her co-workers to at least question her. Don't know if they care or not; but I wanted to put that out there.
She came out, I handed her the money and she was just getting ready to say something as I told her "goodbye, I'll see you tomorrow night." Then I left.
a few minutes later she texted me to say that she JUST got my text that said I was out in the parking lot. She made an inane comment about "so much for the good in texting." I just replied, "yea, it isn't that efficient."
Then on my way home, in awful traffic, my boy was the last one there; I started feeling bitter towards her. And me, with all the work to do around the house, the financial stuff to take care of, the kids to take care of, just found out from the realtor about a broken window on my house in OH. I started feeling overwhelmed. Then I thought of how my kids depend on me and I'll just suck it up and do what I have to do. But it just makes me bitter that she gets to do whatever, with whomever; like she's entitled. Somehow, it steels my resolve to continue on and, so, I left my pity party with more determination to see this through. I just hope she realizes that she is going to have some financial obligations I'll not let her out of.
That's all...had to get that out here before tomorrow night. I'm dreading it; cause I don't like her in the house at all right now. Think I'll start packing her stuff this weekend.
