I haven't been around for a few days (multiple reasons), but I see you haven't been feeling well. I wish I could take on your pain just for one day, so you could have a break and could do some of the things you love to do.
I think it was on Tawnya's thread that I read your more thorough explantion of the "I'm sorry" issue, and I think Amy chimed in with some great insight as well. I finally get it! I'm going to take you up on your challenge to find different words like "excuse me" and reserve the "I'm sorry" for much more worthy occasions. I never realized how I was devaluing those words by using them so often. Something to think about...
Is there any way of getting in touch with you privately? There's something I need to "talk" to someone about, but I can't do it on the boards.
LHS
Me: 38 H: 41 M: 12 D12, S10 H began EA: 7/08 H moved out: 9/30/08 Bomb (sleeping with OW): 10/23/08
My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1638048&page=2#Post1638048
