Hey there COG,

Had a great trip away. The scenery in Nepal is stunning.

When I got home, W had totally spring-cleaned the house while I was away, pruned the garden and got my truck tuned up.
She had also packed up all her personal stuff and taken it to her apartment.

I gave her a call the day after I got back and we went out for coffee. Had a good chat about my adventures and about what she had been up to during the past month. My month away was the longest time I have been out of contact from her in the past 11 yrs.

Although I had told her just before I left that she needs to figure out what to do with the house etc....she never mentioned anything about that topic.
I sincerly wish I had never had that discussion with her as I really said much of it in the heat of the moment.

We are still getting on really well as great friends.....but just being friends in not what I am wanting from her. I want a partner, companion, lover.

It's been almost 7 mths now since the bomb and I feel like I have pretty much detached from the situation now. I do miss the companionship of having a live in partner and I really hate cooking for one.

I'm not sure if I'm going to get her anything for Christmas this year or not.


H - 39
W - 38
M - 10 years, Dated 1
LYBNILWY - 5/17/2008
Moved out - 5/18/08
no kids - 2 cats